Tossing & Turning? Try These Essential Oils for Deep, Restorative Sleep

essential oils lavender sleep May 12, 2025

Do you find yourself wide awake at 3 AM, mind racing, staring at the ceiling? Or maybe you fall asleep quickly, only to wake up exhausted no matter how many hours you were in bed?

If so, you’re not alone and if you’re in perimenopause, it’s not your fault.

Hormonal shifts during this transitional phase can wreak havoc on your sleep patterns. Estrogen and progesterone levels fluctuate, cortisol can spike, and your body’s natural rhythm may feel completely out of sync.

But here’s the good news: before turning to sleep aids, there’s a natural, gentle remedy that can support your nervous system and help your body relax deeply - essential oils.

How Essential Oils Support Better Sleep

Certain essential oils work by calming the nervous system, lowering stress hormones like cortisol, and gently nudging your body into a more restful, parasympathetic state. When used intentionally, they can make a big difference in how deeply you sleep and how refreshed you feel in the morning.

Here are some of the best oils to incorporate into your nighttime routine:

Lavender

The queen of sleep oils. Lavender is scientifically proven to reduce heart rate, ease anxiety, and support a sense of calm, making it ideal for winding down before bed. 

Bergamot

Unlike most citrus oils that are energising, bergamot is uniquely calming. It helps ease nervous tension and quiet a restless mind, perfect if stress or overthinking keeps you up.

 

Cedarwood

This grounding oil encourages the production of melatonin (your body’s natural sleep hormone), helping you fall asleep faster and stay asleep longer.

Clary Sage

A powerful hormonal ally, clary sage not only relaxes the body but also supports hormonal balance—especially helpful for reducing night sweats and anxiety that interrupt sleep.

Roman Chamomile

Known for its gentle sedative effects, this sweet smelling oil can soothe the nervous system and create a sense of peace as you ease into sleep.

Quick Tip for Better Sleep Tonight

Diffuse a blend of lavender and cedarwood in your bedroom about 30 minutes before bed.
You can also dilute your favourite oil in a carrier oil and apply it to the soles of your feet, wrists, or the back of your neck - these pulse points help the oils absorb and signal your body to unwind.

Key Takeaways 

Sleep is not a luxury - it’s a necessity, especially during perimenopause. And while you may not be able to control your hormones completely, you can support your body in returning to a state of rest and balance.

Essential oils offer a simple, natural way to reconnect with your body’s rhythm and finally get the deep, restorative sleep you deserve.

Check out my Essential Oil Guide HERE

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